Confidential Counsellor
Our confidential counsellor is Marjolijn Koppenol. She is a former student of Hotelschool and La Confrérie alumna. You can get in touch with her via email: confidentialcounsellorLC@gmail.com.
According to different research studies, two out of three students experience sexually transgressive behaviour. We hear it on the news: #metoo, the voice; more stories come out. This all tells us there is a need for extra support.
At La Confrérie, we do not tolerate any form of inappropriate behaviour or unequal treatment. Our priority is to create a safe and inclusive environment where every member feels welcome and respected. If you experience undesirable behaviour, you can always contact a confidential counsellor.
What is undesirable behaviour? Undesirable behaviour can take different forms, such as:
- Sexual harassment/assault: unwanted sexual advances, requests for sexual favours, or other verbal, non-verbal, or physical behaviour of a sexual nature.
- Aggression and violence: mental or physical harassment, threats, or attacks related to studies or association activities.
- Bullying: repeated negative behaviour by fellow members that someone cannot defend themselves against, whether verbal, non-verbal, or physical.
- Discrimination: unequal treatment based on race, nationality, gender, religion, or sexual orientation.
If you experience any form of inappropriate behaviour other than the examples mentioned, or if you are in doubt, you can always contact the confidential advisor.
The role of the confidential counsellor: The confidential counsellor provides a safe and confidential space to talk about your concerns. They will:
- Listen and take your feelings seriously.
- Offer advice and discuss possible solutions.
- Support you in conversations with the person involved and/or the Board, if you wish.
- Guide you if you choose to file a formal complaint with La Confrérie, Hotelschool, or the police.
The counsellor is a trusted source of support. Your privacy is always respected, and no action will be taken without your approval. You may also choose to simply report an incident.
Formal complaints
If an informal solution is not possible or effective, you may file a formal complaint directly with La Confrérie, Hotelschool, or, if necessary, the police. A confidential counsellor can help you through this process, but it is also possible to do this independently.
Hotelschool counsellors
Hotelschool The Hague also has confidential counsellors available. Their names and contact details can be found on the intranet. Most important is that you contact a confidential counsellor when you need to.
